You may think of 'cruising' as a term for a holiday on a large ship travelling around the Mediterranean or Caribbean. Another term often associated with the practice is "cottaging, a gay slang term referring to anonymous sex in public toilets. Sex between men in public has died out in recent years, thanks partly to the acceptance of non-heterosexuality in the UK and the rise of mobile dating apps like Grindr. But for some, cruising still remains a useful way to meet other like-minded men to engage in sexual activity. One website, which we have chosen not to name, allows men to rate, review and share tips of their favourite locations they are allegedly meeting for sex.
It says there is a small toilet block near a car park offering two cubicles between Clacton and Holland-on-sea. The man giving the review admits he has only been there in the afternoons, but says "there has always been action". Described as "woods with a lot of action on the website", Hylands Park is more commonly known as the venue for RiZE Festival and its predecessor V Fest, as well as the stunning grade II listed house in the centre. Frequently used as a location for weddings, this site has also become a three-star rated place for men interested in cruising. The library toilets in the main university's building is another popular alleged destination.
The Chafford-Lakeside Bannatynes has come in at number four with three stars for alleged cruising opportunies.
It is described as having "hundreds of sexually frustrated Essex blokes, mostly married. The first five star review is the toilets underneath the labs at the University of Essex in Colchester. According to the website post, these loos unsurprisingly attract mainly students and recommend 8pm as the ideal time.
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It is described plainly as a small cottage off London Road in Old Harlow with "usually some activity". Given two stars out of five, it is apparently best to visit at lunchtimes, though reviewers have warned that a police station is located nearby. The review also recommends different hours for students and married men but adds: "You can get action there almost any time. A Tesco spokesperson said: "We have received no reports of inappropriate use of our toilets.
Just after duty-free, the toilets behind a row of shops is claimed to be a cruising hotspot, though the review warns it is hit and miss depending on what time of day you go there. The reviewers advise you park on Sheepen Road where you will soon find a green gate, nicknamed the "tunnel of love". Hilly Fields actually featured twice in the top twenty, so it must really be up there for the cruising community.
Situated off the A, the review says the side road next to the Halfway House is a great location for cruising. The interested crowd seems to be most motorists, described as: "bikers, car drivers, truckers and cyclists.
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With 32 acres of landscape, this country park in South Ockendon is rated as two stars from the people who are allegedly meeting there. It appeals to older men although the reviews warn that the area is popular among families and dog walkers. They also list the bus routes available for those who may need them and recommends morning and lunchtime as the best times. Given just one star, they warn that there is usually a female attendant who sits in the entrance to avoid. Just past the Queen Victoria statue, it is a brick building by the beach, apparently used by mainly middle-aged men.
Given an average three stars, the toilets under the Angel Way car park near the town are listed as another popular destination. The reviewer says that Saturday mornings are the best and "all sorts of lads" go there. Unsuprisingly, this alleged hotspot is another set of toilets, this time at the Meadows Shopping Centre on Chelmsford High Street.
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A spokeswoman for The Meadows said: "We are not aware of any instances of the situations the website refers to taking place at this location. You may be sensing a theme here. This review recommends the toilets just behind the Riverside Leisure Centre in Chelmsford as an alleged place to meet for sex. According to the website's post, these toilets are rarely used and so make a great hotspot, attracting a variety of people. Want to join a Essex Dating Site, all you need to do is select the right site for you!
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